Marriage in Saudi Arabia - part1

What I’m going to talk about today is a very sensitive subject, I find out marriage in Saudi Arabia is one of the most difficult subjects in this country.

Before I start to talk, I want you all readers out there to understand that all what I’m going to say is from real problems I’ve seen and this is my point of view from the subject.

Saudi youth generation:

They look innocent and told not to interact with the opposite sex from kinder garden Intel they reach to their 15 or 14, when seeing a girl at this age is something forbidden and in many cases you can’t talk no more to your cousins or family relates just because of the sex difference!

After 15 and as natural human being those teenagers try to seek a way to be involved in the man – women relationship, everyone is searching for love or some type of compaction and because it’s forbidden to talk to boys\girls you have to keep your relationship a secret!, here is exactly where teenage boys take advantage of the innocent teenage girls.

He has the perfect relationship for any man on earth:

a-      A girl desperate for love (for any type of love)…whether it’s sexual or just share your own feelings.

b-      A girl who will keep calling you all day by her own expenses

c-       A girl is so loyal (because that’s the only thing Saudi moms deliver to their children, loyalty to the man with all his mistakes) which is something good in a real healthy relationship NOT for teenage love! and of course NOT every mistake!

d-      A secret relationship that no one can ever know about it, it’s like a world for you two (believe me it’s not romantic)….it can get really ugly because of this reason.

I’m not saying this is the only type of relationships in Saudi Arabia for teenagers, sometimes it goes the opposite way where the girl take advantage of the boy, but this is the common way of relationships in here because as worldwide knowledge whenever a boy gets a girl he is a man whenever a girl gets a man she is a ……

What I want to say is that at least every girl and every boy got in a relationship or at least they share a forbidden phone call once (forbidden by society) There is no shame in it really from my point of view, but you better not do it if you want to get married.