Marriage in Saudi Arabia - part 2

Marriage:

Let’s say that you are a male and you somehow survived the teen process safely with no harm to anyone or even you and you decided to get married.

The only way to get married is:

Your mom or one of your ants or any female family related start searching for you! , starting from your own family to find appropriate wife who must fulfill these conditions:

1-      Young which means from (16 – 29 Max)

2-      Virgin

3-      Knows how to cock(several meals)

4-      Religious, the more religious she is the better opportunities for her to get married

The problem is when we say religious the only way to measure it is by her clothes when she gets out of home, the stricter she is the more religious, which is actually a completely stupid understanding of religion!

In some cases those who are believed to be strict and religious, become the worst nightmare in this protective society, because they know when it comes to marriage the only things that matters is some shallow behaviors that she can act at anytime and anyplace, which give her the opportunity to do mistakes as she want to, as long as, she can keep herself safe for the conditions.

So let’s say that your mom or ant find a good stranger that fulfill the above conditions, you still don’t have any authority in this place you just have to decide that you want to get married and see different girls, where mind and the way the girls think and how she can relate to you is something irrelevant and you can figure all this out after you get married!

Imagine that you get married to someone the only thing you know about is the 4 conditions!! And this is the only way of getting married!! You DO NOT get to know your wife Intel you marry her!...What type of a sick society is this ?

I forgot to say the most important step for this whole marriage process to be accepted:

In Saudi Arabia we are different families with different roots, if the two roots don’t match each other in society level then you can forget this marriage immediately , your mom or ant will never search in families who don’t step up to your society level.

So individuals don’t really decide in anyway who are they going to marry, it’s just a matter of stupid family traditions that you must do to have a legal female partner in your life and that’s about it!

Even in highly successful educated families and the most modern families, the education just slams on the wall, in marriage every step is just traditions! And the two people who are the important part become the last step in this process.