Accepting Reality

I never thought I will reach to this point but it really happened .



Suddenly all the fantasies and all the big dreams and everything I hopped to be at my age it's just not going to happen. It sounds very sad I know, but believe it or not im typing this post to say somthing positive.

Life is nothing like what you see in your mind, yes what you see in your mind sounds very reasonable and achivable with faith, but life needs more than just faith and believeing to make things the way you want.

Life needs a very hard worker with alot of patient as God says in Holy quran{
Allah is with those who patiently persevere} Al baqarah (135)

I wished for many things and I hopped to find true love I really wished for almost everything beutiful. I got some of them I don't deny it, however you can't have everything and that's the real fact that I want to talk about.

case 1:
I've alwayes seen my self as a party dude who can fit anywhere at any time,but reality had a different opinion about that, you see I found my self rejecting everything thing includes drinking or having sex, because I have my own believes and ideas. When I was at high school that was a very positive and right choice, but now im just a person who can spoil any party. I don't want to spoil anyones party, but im in a time and place that force me to pick a side and stick to it and im choosing the right side.

case 2:
When it comes to love, I wished to find a person who can understand me and apreciate me and I found that person, but it's not like anything I've ever imagend in my head, she is somthing different and anyone who really know the two of us they would say there is no chance we two match.

Sometimes being shoked by things like love and sticking to your own designs can make all your life somthing you have ever imagind and that's my friends is life.

You can't alwayes get what you want and you have to be brave enough to accept that fact, but that should encourage us to do our best in everything so we don't mess up our lifes for some beautiful dreams that only live in our imagination.

I heared this quote from a dear friend of mine and it really fits life in so many ways:
"Pray for what you want, but work for what you need"